The Recipe for Great sex

Imagine for a moment that you are sitting in a movie theater watching a great movie. You are having fun! There’s adventure, excitement, romance, and even a touch of danger. But best of all, there’s an aire of mystery and unpredictability. You have no idea what will happen next! Emotions are stirring, your hearts pounding, and then . . . there’s the grand finale! The perfect ending to a perfect adventure. You release completely with a deep sigh. You walk out of the theater totally satisfied and maybe even a little tired. After all, that was one heck of an exhilarating experience!

Now . . . imagine watching the same movie . . . twice a week . . . for the next 3 months.

What happens at the end of the three months? For most of us, that movie will no longer be fun. It won’t be adventurous. The excitement won’t be there any longer. And the unpredictability? Haah…what unpredictability? You’ve got the darned script memorized in its entirety, by now! Without even trying!

To re-experience the fun, excitement and intrigue of watching a great movie, you have to watch a new movie, with a new plot, and new twists. It has to be unpredictable so, while you know the end will leave you breathless, you don’t quite know how or when it will reach the end. With a new movie, you are once again able to enjoy each moment as it unfolds before your eyes.

Great sex, in many ways, is similar to watching a great movie. And just like a great movie, to be able to enjoy sex again and again, it has to be unique. It has to have new twists and turns, and it has to be unpredictable. Because when it’s predictable, you know exactly what will happen and exactly when it will happen. You are back to watching that same darned movie over and over again. It is just not fun anymore. In fact, it is downright boring.

So…the secret ingredient to having great sex is variety!

If we were asked to explain great sex in just one word, that would be it - variety. To keep sex interesting and fun, the what, the how, the when, and the where have to keep changing. In other words, the techniques, the execution, the time and the place have to change. They don’t all have to change at the same time. But there has to be at least one change per session.

You may be thinking "Man, that’s a lot of pressure! How can I always add something new to sex?" Well, you don’t always have to do something new. But when you do decide to, you’ll find lots of ideas in this e-book.

Let’s go back to the movie example for a better explanation. If you watched a great movie one time, there is a good chance that you will be able to enjoy that same movie again if you saw it a few months later, right? You may not enjoy it as much as the first time around, but you’ll come close.

Similarly, if now and then you end up having sex the same way as you did a month ago, you’ll still enjoy it a lot, as long as you don’t do the same thing every single time.

The great thing about having sex is that, unlike watching a movie, it is almost impossible to have sex in the same way as you did previously. And after you finish reading this book, you’ll have enough ideas to be able to create an Oscar-winning blockbuster almost every single time!

So, let’s get to it!