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I Just Had Sex With A Gay Guy!? Advice Please?
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Listen, you don’t have to beat yourself up. Judging from this event, before jumping to conclusions, it’d be best to talk with him, ask him how he feels about the situation and tell him how you feel about it. Once you both understand each other, you can both conclude the outcome, but make sure it’s direct and clear and there’s no possibility for an innuendo.
I have had sex with a few GAY women.I think it is so f___ing cool.Check it out. You had a chance to be with someone for pure pleasure. Please don’t think that you messed up anything.If he is truly gay then why did he do you. I mean drunk or not. you must be hot. or he was hot for you.My wife is bisexual. Yes I have a real good time. But she wants to see me and another man. No matter how drunk I get. THAT WONT HAPPEN!!!! If you had a good time. Cool.You two must be great friends. You knew he was gay he knew he was gay. yet you two did it anyway.He gave you his virginity. You didnt take it. he wanted you to have it. If it was good and you want to do it again then that is what it is.You got to teach a guy about what you like. Virgins are great like that. they try so hard to impress you, and you have to show them what to do. Did he want to do you anal? did he want you to do him anal? Was it just good head? If he is really gay. then his first gay sex will be his lost of his virginity.
sounds like he’s bisexual. a lot of people believe that there’s no such thing as 100% gay or 100% straight.. our sexuality is very flexible.
well i guess as long as the two of you don’t let the inevitable awkwardness that you’ll go through the next time you meet up grow into something that’ll throw off your relationship. you might wanna talk it over and make a decision of whether to forget about it or continue doing it if you’re both comfortable.
The best advice I can give you is this: don’t stress.
Look, you may be feeling somewhat awkward but you are still friends, right? So don’t worry. The awkwardness will pass and you will both remember it as a unique experience and see it as just one of those thngs.
And I agree about “planned parenthood”. Always good.
Oh it doesn’t matter… I’ve banged a few girlies… and I am totally homo! Sex is fun. If he consented with his *****, it’s just as much his fault. Just apologize and say you feel terrible. He will probably be like ‘oh. its nothing.’
he sounds bi-curious to me. i would suggest to just talk to him and make sure you guys agree, it was just goofing around. good luck!
planned parenthood.