There are plenty of people out there who hate their spouse. I’ve been married for 24 years myself, and I love my wife more today than I ever could imagine when we first got married. She’s my absolute best friend in the world.

Virtually every person who gets married loves their spouse at first, but something goes wrong for at least half the marriages in the U.S. They ‘fall out of love,’ divorce, and many end up hating each other.

The divorce rate is sky high in many countries around the world. If only spouses who are considering divorce would go through the process I call “Loving the You Hate.” The process can work with anyone or anything – your job, your boss, even your mother-in-law, by transforming your hate to LOVE. It’s ridiculously simple and contains just 10 questions or steps. Now, let’s look at the process from the perspective of “how to love the spouse you hate.”

The Process

1) Why would it benefit you to love the spouse you hate?

2) What is one thing you like about yourself?

3) What is one thing you love about yourself?

4) What is one nice thing you can say about your spouse?

5) If you liked one thing about your spouse, what would it be?

6) If you loved one thing about your spouse, what would it be?

7) If you loved your spouse, what would you do for him/her?

8) By what date will you do #7 above?

9) Now take action and DO what you wrote in #7.

10) After doing what you wrote in #8, how do you feel about the spouse you hate now?

The process begins with you identifying why it would be beneficial to love the spouse you hate. You need to have a good reason why you would benefit from transforming your hate to love.

The transformation process continues by asking you to write nice things about yourself. Why? Because if you don’t love yourself, it’s difficult for you to love others.

You then continue with a systematic method of finding answers about what’s good about your spouse. The process leads to the very important question of what you would do for your spouse if you loved him or her. It’s then, by actually doing what you identify, that you’ll develop a love for your spouse.

It’s been said that it’s impossible to hate someone you do a kindness for. Think for a moment why this simple statement is so loaded with truth.

I’m not a psychologist. I’m not a marriage counselor. I’m just practical. I’m approaching this with a practical process I’ve discovered what actually works (and even works miracles sometimes) in helping people LOVE the spouse (or job, or mother-in-law, or what or whomever) they hate.

The potential is always there to slip into feelings of hate for those we love the most – our spouses, families and others. We need to be aware that those incredible, wonderful feelings of love we have for another – like the love we feel at the time we get married — have the potential to turn into bitterness and hate. Look at the many couples that get divorced and end up absolutely hating their former spouse. It’s heartbreaking. That’s why it’s so important to ask yourself the right questions, to look for the good in others – especially your spouse and family – always, and to love and grow rich in your relationships!

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Mens Suit Colors For Different Occasion

Mens Black Suit
Mens White Suit
Mens Brown Suit / Mens Bronze Suit
Mens Navy Blue Suit
Mens Gray Suit / Mens Charcoal Suit
Mens Tan Suit
Mens Red Suit

Mens Black Suit
Mens classic black suit will never go out of fashion. Every year new styles appear but the black suit is an everlasting symbol of elegance, grace and sophistication. Black Suit is designed to enhance mens personality. In Mens suit, black suit is a most often associated with formality and elegance. Black Suit is the perfect choice for any formal wear occasion. Mens Black Suits are timeless and classic. Show off your style with a choice of colorful vest and ties. Gold accessories are particularly striking when matched with a black Suit. Black suits are more formal and austere.

Wear Mens black suits in the formal events, formal evenings and events such as weddings, communions etc. A Black Suit is right attire for business meeting, corporate presentation, formal get-togethers and yet stylish enough to wear each day to distinguish yourself in the gathering. With mens black suit shirt with soft pattern or pale blue shirt give soften look. Match pattern of tie with black suit and avoid white, silver, black and solid color tie.

Mens White Suits
Mens business attire is one of the most important aspects; therefore selecting appropriate clothing and accessories proclaims social and financial status. Mens white suits are most suitable for many events such as Business meeting, fashion events. Mens white suits are available in various hues as well as patterns. White Suit is great for any occasions. Mens white suits look different in different patens and material. White color is the color of Joy, lightness, neutral, cold. It depicts dignity, joy, light and innocence.

Mens white suits is the most suitable suit color for mens fashion. Mens white suit is also most appropriate as wedding suit. Men in White suits make excellent personalities. White suit is become the first choice for the grooms while selecting men suit for wedding. Groom in white wedding suit with new designs look elegant and matchless on their wedding day. One should look attractive and pleasing to the eye on your special day of life such as wedding day.

Richness in fabrics and good tailoring never go out of style. The amount of material and tailoring required made white mens suits luxury items. In white zoot suit, many young people wore a more moderate version of the draped pants. Using proper mix and match with dress shirts, white suit can be worn quite often during the week and you can still look different each time. White color generally has easy affinity with many basic colors such as light blue, dark blue, light pink dress shirts. These colors can be blended within any combination of patterns on the dress shirt and make your white suit look refreshing each time.

Mens Brown Suit/ Mens Bronze Suits
While selecting Brown suits or bronze suit for men, it is very important to match suit color with color of your skin complexion. Maroon and cream is good color combination with brown suit. Brown suit is versatile and looks good with any personality. Generally mans brown suit color is avoided by many people but it gives down-to-earth feel as well as it gives some different choice if you wish to try some different look other than commonly wear suit color. Brown suits can be easily matched with earth tones from yellow to gold to tan colors.

Patterns for Mens bronze suits are limited to solids. In man brown suit avoid chalk stripe, beaded-stripe, multi stripe. If you want to buy a patterned suit, check whether the stripes match up to each other at the suits seams.

The Mens charcoal brown suit with a grey pin stripe is the height of fashion and a keeper for a well rounded wardrobe. Mini check pattern, mid brown color suit gives different outlook with lined pant and pleats. The shades of Mens brown suits for both day and night as well as summer or winter wear. It is advisable to have a lightweight worsted flatter Mens brown suit instead of brown suits in heavy woolen. Dark brown suit with a light pink shirt for a work is good choice. With mens bronze suit wear brown shoes and avoid wearing black shoes. Some good shades of pink tie become good match with brown man suit. Another combination with brown suit is light pink shirt with brown tie. The combination of brown with maroon is always going well. When dressing up, you can never go wrong by matching the sock color to Mens brown suits. Matching the suit and sock color lengthen the body, making you look taller. Avoid bold socks with brown suits, it tone down the rest of your outfit.

You know that you love your partner, but don’t have those “in love” feelings anymore. You miss it and you want those feelings back. Some people are willing to have an affair to have those feelings–risking everything they have with their partner. Trying to fill one hole by taking dirt from somewhere else just makes another hole. But, there are ways to re-create the feeling of being in love with the partner that you already have.

It isn’t the things that other people do that cause us to feel in love with them. If it were, then we would all fall in love with the same people. One person’s loveable silliness is another person’s dull stupidity. Some fall in love with tigers while others fall in love with doves. Even with the same person things that we really enjoyed when we were in love with them can be irritating after that feeling is gone.

The causes of our feelings of love are related to: 1) how we behave toward our partner, 2) how we interpret our partner’s behavior, and 3) how well our needs are met. The movie “Castaway” with Tom Hanks showed how a man desperately needy for companionship fell in love with a soccer ball he affectionately called “Wilson”. Wilson actually did nothing, but was talked to and treated specially by Hank’s character. When we are needy for love, attention, affection, comfort or many things, we can easily develop feelings of love for someone who meets that need, even if in other ways they are woefully inadequate (did you ever ask yourself, “Wow, how can she fall in love with that guy?”). But, after the need has been met for some time, the initial intense feelings of being in love fade away and we become dissatisfied with what we have left.

Even when we have a wonderful partner, the feeling of being in love will come and go. To increase the frequency and intensity of the love you feel, there are some things you can do:

1. Love extra. Do more for your partner than you need to do. Treat him or her extra special. Write little notes, plan surprises, put another meatball in his sandwich, whatever. Treating your partner extra special helps to create extra special feelings for your partner. Start treating someone other than your partner extra special and you will start to develop feelings for that person instead.

2. Believe the best about your partner. If you can choose to believe that either your partner is looking forward to being with you or just doesn’t care, which belief do you think will help you to feel special? When we believe the best about others, it changes the way we behave toward them and tends to make our beliefs come true. This works for both negative and positive beliefs. Remember that beliefs precede reality. This is not the same as hope. Hope just waits. Beliefs create our actions. You can choose to believe the best, become the best, and get the best.

3. Be sure that your needs are being met. Can you have a smile on your face and love in your heart when you have a thorn in your shoe? Taking care of yourself and having personal ambitions that excite you will make it much easier for you to be in love and will make you a more attractive person for your partner.

4. Set personal goals and challenges that excite you or work with a relationship coach to have a steady stream of personal successes. These things will flood energy into your feelings, your personal life, and your relationship.

Loving, feeling in love, and attracting love are all very much under our control. Sitting back and waiting for them or looking for them in the wrong places will set us further back. Giving up on them will make our lives feel meaningless. Only by getting control of our minds and our actions can we make better lives for ourselves and our partners.

Should I Get My Ex Back? A Question About Reconciliation

I know you have just broken up with your ex and you are feeling so sad and depressed. You start to call your ex up but your ex just hangs up on you after a few words. I know you are feeling even worse if your ex is not returning your phone calls. But do not worry as I will teach you three simple methods to get it all started and moving and before you even realise, you are already on course to get your ex back again! So please commit to memory the three golden rules that I am going to teach you right now!

1. Create the time and space for yourself

All along it has been just you and your ex. Now that your ex is gone (for the moment), I think it is also a good chance to be alone to rediscover your true self. Go out with your friends and socialise. After chatting with friends, more often than not, you will be feeling much more refreshed and relaxed and you will be able to look at things from more perspectives. At the same time, your ex will be very interested to know about you during this period when you two are apart.

2. No desperate measures

If your ex never returns your call, then stop calling your ex for the moment. That is simply no use in calling your ex repeatedly if your ex chooses not to answer your calls. Desperate measures do not work at all. In addition, following up with tons of text messages is also a bane; your ex will probably treat it as spam messages and delete them straight away. So what is the rule then? Well, start with a message a day two weeks after the initial breakup. After your ex replies you, do not get too excited and calls your ex up straight away. Let us play the fishing game to catch the big fish!

3. Short and sweet conversations

If you finally manage to strike a phone conversation with your ex, do not blow it by crying in desperation as opportunities usually do not knock twice on your door. Stay as calm and as composed as possible even if you are not. The basics of communication is first to get attention and then, get your message across to the other party. So your job at the beginning is to grab your ex attention by setting a cosy talking environment before even talking about business! If your first call conversation is successful, then the next one will naturally be your books!

Now ask yourself this Do you want your ex back? Do you want to get your ex back? How are you going to get your ex back? After identifying the key issues, we can then proceed on to learn on how you can get your ex back. There are techniques that will guide you – step-by-step – on how you can get your ex back and if you follow the rules diligently, chances are that you will SUCCEED!! Uncover the experiences of someone who have gone through this before and his secrets in mending your relationships.

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The search for your special person to share your life with is usually a combination of excitement, sadness, loneliness, happy, and broken relationships. When done the right way, online dating can eliminate the pitfalls we experience in the offline world of dating.

Researching and implementing online dating etiquette should be something you do before signing up. The following are the most important key elements to consider.

1. Standing out from the bunch. An appealing profile headline is the first thing a potential match will see, as members are scanning through the endless profiles, you have approximately 4-5 seconds for your profile to stand out before they move on to the next member – so make sure you stand out. i.e: ‘When I’m not giving flying lessons, I offer guided tours of the Vatican’

2. Leave your baggage offline. When you meet the right person, there will come a time and place to air your laundry. Too many online singles scare potential suitors off – for example, they might tell a virtual stranger about their psycho-ex who stalks them, or about their sex change operation from hell they just had from a plastic surgery tour of Thailand. Come across relaxed and open minded, express your interests and goals in life and that you are looking for someone who shares your common goals and ambitions.

3. Your profile picture – Notice the word ‘your’ – don’t post a picture of someone else, or when you were 10 years younger. Probably the most important component of your online dating profile is your photo. We are all very visual and a good photo will draw interest straight away. Do pick your best photo to post, or even have one specially done professionally, but don’t photo shop your picture or alter your true appearance, you’re just setting yourself up to be rejected when you meet face to face.

4. Be proactive. Spread your options as far as you possibly can. Don’t feel guilty engaging multiple people in communications, you’re there to find the right one and they are not going to come knocking on your front door, you need to be proactive and date as many people as you feel necessary until your number comes up – and with this attitude, your number will come up.

5. Be realistic with your approach. Most men will be easily distracted with the pretty girls and forget about whether she seems compatible. You can be certain that she is already being bombarded by dozens other eager guys, so it’s important look for someone that is on your wave length. But it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it a shot, just remember the intention of online dating is to arrange a real life offline date – and if you don’t appeal to her, you’re setting yourself up for an unpleasant brush off.

6. Sex. If we are going to be honest, sex is one of the main reasons people use free online dating sites, it’s kind of on most peoples minds so there’s no need to spoil something by being too sexually forward. If you are attractive to someone you meet online, there’s a good chance sex will happen sooner or later so there’s no reason to come on like a perverted sex maniac.

It’s crucial that you’re honest with the people you’re meeting online, make the most of what you do best and sell those qualities for best results.

Talking about sex in the Arab world is an abomination. There is a string soul which is courageous enough to come out and talk about sex in a TV show that broadcasts over the whole of middle east. She is Dr. Heba Kotb and uncovers most of the sex secrets in this part of the world. The show that takes place in Cairo, Egypt talks about sex and Ramadan, sex over the Internet, masturbation and also sex during the wedding night. The sex allowed in the Quran and that is why the religious mother has agreed to talk about it. Talking about sex without shame is not easy and a lot of campaign is needed in the Arab world. The talk show is increasingly gaining popularity and the host is trying her best to push the sexual envelope even further.

The advice to many married Arab couples is to have a lot of sex since they cannot have it anywhere else. They have to get from their spouse. The men are also advised to practice foreplay with their wives and have it even when they do not feel like having it. There is a passage in the quran that discusses about sex and Dr. Kotb wanted to use it to enlighten people about sex in the Arab world. The passage teaches that wives are like tilth to the husband and so the tilth or the land to be cultivated should be well prepared. When this woman was doing that research she was proud of her religion because the had discovered the importance of sexual education way before science inventions.

And people are doing just that. The show is gaining popularity throughout the Middle East. So much so that Kotb just signed with a new production company and plans to push the sexual envelope even further in her discussions. This has not been easy as most women residing at the middle town refused to talk about sex. It was sensitive topic in the Muslim world the men were a bit open about the topic but still lacked enthusiasm. The sex subject also include extra marital affairs, teen pregnancies, and homosexuality too. However such things are not discussed in the sex in the Arab world show. The conservatives still think that sex should never be a topic of discussion.

The sexologist says that she is not about to slow down in discussing about sex in the Arab world even if she receives criticism. She is dedicated in helping people especially young girls and boys who might not be knowing anything about sexuality. The challenges are many but she is not just about to give up. Many misinterpret her career and think that she is encouraging people to sleep around. She said that she is proud about teaching people to sleep with each other best but not to sleep around. The hypocrisy in many parts of the world regarding sex breeds to many bad things. If only people of different cultures can come out and talk about sex without fear or shame, relationships would be great havens.

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