About Blushgirl

Welcome. My name is Kelly or “BlushGirl” as I am known on the Internet. I have been involved in online dating since 1996. Wow, that is over twelve years now; time flies as they say. I started off with a simple little dating site. It was slow at first, but interest started to build. Before long, people were emailing me questions, and I started answering them. Then I decided to start posting the questions and answers on my site, and maybe help out other folks who had the same issues and concerns. I retired that site after several years but I kept on getting relationship questions in my email that I continued to answer.

After a while, I realized I needed a new site. I felt that honest reviews were needed to help people choose quality dating sites. I experimented with various site designs and platforms but something was always missing. I finally realized what that wasinteractivity. I wanted a site where I could interact with my visitors in a way that email can never do. Welcome to that site! I want this to be a resource for people to use when they are looking for love in their lives. A place to come to when things seem hopeless, to get some encouragement and share the experiences of life.

We all go through things in our lives that make us stronger. Some can be especially difficult, and when this happens, we see no hope for things to get better. But nothing bad lasts forever. No circumstance is too insurmountable and we pick ourselves up and start again. Sometimes we need someone to talk to, but we find ourselves alone, or scared. That is why this site exists.

There was a point in my life when I wondered if it was worth looking for someone again. I know what it feels like to be so lonely that nothing makes sense. I have felt the pain and helplessness of letting go of someone who needed to be free. I have endured relationships where I knew I did not belong because I was afraid to let go. But I have also experienced the joy of a new beginning and a new hope for happiness, which I have now found.

If you are going through something as you search for a new beginning, maybe I can help. Maybe we can come up with some ideas and answers that will help you along in your journey to find someone. I dont have all the answers. No one does, but maybe I can bring a new perspective that will lead you to the answers you seek.

If you would like to ask me a question, or contact me for any reason, fill out the form below. Thank you for trusting me and enjoy the site.

P.S. I do make a small commission on the dating sites I have posted on this website if you choose to become a paid member. If you don’t want me to receive that commission, it is no problem. Instead of clicking my links, simply open a browser and type in the address to the site you would like to visit.